The Self-Led Life

Transform Your Inner Landscape. Rebuild Your Life.

A Sacred 12-month Path of Rebirth Where Spiritual Awakening,
Emotional Sovereignty & Physical Renewal Become One

The part no one prepared you for

You expected grief. You expected anger. You expected relief.

You didn´t expect to feel lost to the point that you don´t know who you are anymore.
You might waver between missing them & the certainty that you made the right decision to leave.

You might also miss the woman you were. So right now you feel insecure about what you really like or dislike, because there´s still this other voice echoing, telling what you´re supposed to like.

Your voice feels unsteady or weak, because in the past it didn´t really matter what you had to say. Your decisions feel built on shaky ground & you might look for approval outside of yourself.
Silence feels loud - Isolation & loneliness are hitting harder than expected.

You tell yourself: “I don´t know who I am without them”
And quietly wonder if there´s even a real self to return to - and if so: Who is she?

Living in a body that doesn´t feel like home.

Your mind knows you´re safer without the abusers in your life.
Your body does not.

🔹You wake up exhausted
🔹Moments of panic set in unexpectedly
🔹Your stomach tightens for no reason
🔹Sleep is shallow or haunted

You tell yourself: “I just need to push harder.”
Underneath it all lingers a nervous system wired for danger & drama.

Battlefield of the mind

You replay conversations. You rewrite memories. You question your past. You wonder if it really was that bad, if you exaggerated or caused any of this.

And you tell yourself: “I can´t trust myself or my judgement”
So now even small & simple choices carry the risk of doom & gloom

Invisible grief without social permission

You are grieving relationships that harmed & people who are alive, but abused you. A future that collapsed. A version of yourself that repeatedly tried, hoped & clung to “family is everything”.

Yet, the world says:
“You´re a survivor of abuse - You´re free now! Good for you!“
Or: “You made your bed, now lie in it.”

So you grieve alone & ask yourself: “Shouldn´t I be over this by now?”

Life after the collapse

Your day-to-day life didn´t pause for healing.
Maybe:

🔹Your income has become unstable
🔹Your career momentum has slowed down
🔹Social circles have shifted or vanished
🔹You feel behind compared to other women your age

You are rebuilding while continuously bracing emotionally

You once trusted your intuition. Your sense of meaning. Your discernment. Your judgement. Now even that feels unreliable.

You wonder what was love & what was trauma-bonding? Were these relationships your “destiny”, “karmic lessons for your soul” or a result of conditioning?

You might ask where are God & Jesus in all of this? Maybe you´ve dabbled in the new age or religious circles, but nothing truly resonated in your heart & soul.

The Truth is …

You´re not weak. You´re not broken. You´re not dramatic. You´re not lost.

You are experiencing what happens when …

… an old identity is being dismantled - because it was never your true one to begin with
… your reality feels distorted - when in reality you left behind the distortion of abuse & narcissism, likely for the first time in your life
… true safety feels foreign & slipping away - because your body was patterned for survival & pain

Estrangement not only removes people, but also structure.

This is not something willpower or “pushing just a little bit harder” fixes.
You can´t force or affirm your way into a self-led life.

It requires creating energetic space for the new.
It requires rebuilding a self.
Beyond mindset. Beyond confidence.

It requires shifting your energetic baseline from a trauma & survivor identity to a sovereign identity. So that you no longer define your life by what you survived - but by what you are here to build.

If this resonates - Welcome, you´ve come home.
Your new chapter awaits you - a self-led life with agency, self-compassion & authentic self-leadership - and you as the author of your reality. Let´s start this journey together.

“The Self-Led Life”
is here to help you …

Stabilization & Safety

Nervous System Repair; Safe Routines, Healthy Basics & Regulation; Awareness, Understanding & Clarity on what happened

Deep Wound Work

Mother Wound & Father Wound Healing; Rewriting the Self-Concept; Healing Internalized Narcissistic Stories

Energetic Detox & New Relationships

Healing from Narcissistic Relationships & Energetic Clearings; Cord-Cutting & No-Contact Strategies, Building New Communities & Support Network

Your Gifts, Purpose & Future

Awakening Ancient Gifts & Light Body Activation, Rebuilding Work, Business or Calling from New Identity, Visioning the Future with Empowerment & Sovereignty

Hi, I´m Lahela.

I’m a Quantum Mind Body Therapist®️, Holistic Health Coach & speaker who bridges neuroplasticity, holistic nutrition, trauma recovery, quantum healing, embodied transformation & my own lived experiences.

After a near-death experience in early childhood that resulted in quadriplegic Cerebral Palsy, I was told I would always be limited. I was blind, used a wheelchair & carried profound emotional, narcissistic & sexual trauma.

Through years of deep, sacred work, physically, emotionally, energetically -
I transformed. Not just symptom relief. Rebirth.
From a wheelchair to walking.
From survival mode to sovereign joy.
From silence & shame to being a clear, unapologetic channel of divine truth & healing.

Today, I move through this world with independence, vitality, & purpose. But more than that, I live inside a frequency of
self-love & divine remembrance that I now help others reclaim.

The Foundation:

Deep, energetic, proven, world-class healing programs …

by Liana Shanti

… as the foundation of your curriculum

What makes this work different …

... and how proven world-class programs that address every layer of life combined with my personalized guidance will create deep transformation for you

Transformation with structure

We´ll be working with a curriculum that has already changed thousands of lives across the world. A clear roadmap from where you´re at now to where you want to be.
You´re getting the best of both worlds: globally proven programs AND my personal guidance to integrate it into your specific life.

Depth

You´re done with surface fixes & quick tips - You´re seeking depth & lasting change. This path touches multiple layers of your life, addressing childhood wounds, trauma, energy, spiritual work, health, relationships & deep inner healing - provided in one comprehensive container.

Accountability & Commitment

You´ve spent months or years figuring it out alone - self-help books, podcasts, free content, motivation seminars - you´re tired of piecing together information without seeing real change. You´ve felt on your own, overwhelmed, started & stopped. Here you´ll receive a clear path with expert guidance every step of the way - having accountability so you stay committed.

A mentor who walked the walk

Having successfully freed myself from high-level narcissistic abuse of 30+ yrs, healed CSA & turned estrangement into soul freedom & sovereignty, I understand you - because I was you. I´m bringing my personal wisdom, intuition, skills & heartfelt compassion into every conversation, because I genuinely want to see YOU thrive.

This space is for you, if…

🔹You’ve separated from toxic family systems, but still don´t feel free
🔹You want a sovereign self-identity not shaped by survival strategies, trauma or performance
🔹You’re ready to move from self-doubt into embodied self-trust
🔹You’re tired of hypervigilance running your choices
🔹You seek relationships rooted in reciprocity & emotional maturity
🔹You’re rebuilding your work, finances, & long-term direction from clarity
🔹You’ve outgrown surface-level healing spaces & are done with piecemeal approaches
🔹You’re seeking spiritual depth without bypassing
🔹You’re committed to a comprehensive, long-term process, because you know real transformation takes time & depth

“The Self-Led Life ”

Curriculum

Our sessions are always
tailored to you!

We use the quantum principles & tools so you have the most powerful outcome for your unique situation.

Nervous System Repair; Safe Routines, Healthy Basics & Regulation; Awareness, Understanding & Clarity on what happened & is happening
Mother Wound & Father Wound Healing; Rewriting the Self-Concept; Healing Internalized Narcissistic Stories
Healing from Narcissistic Relationships & Energetic Clearings; Cord-Cutting & No-Contact Strategies, Building New Communities & Support Network
Awakening Ancient Gifts & Light Body Activation, Rebuilding Work, Business or Calling from New Identity, Visioning the Future with Empowerment & Sovereignty

With “The Self-Led Life” we are going to walk through your entire inner and outer life in one year. You will be held through a world-class curriculum that addresses your childhood wounds, identity, energy, nervous system, health & daily habits, relationships, purpose & work, spiritual gifts & boundaries.

You receive:

🔹Guided access to Liana Shanti´s licensed energy healing programs that helped thousands worldwide transform their life - a structured, proven path
🔹1:1 live sessions throughout the year - consistent connection for teachings, integration, Q&A
🔹Simple, grounded practices that help you integrate & embody
🔹Healing that includes every dimension of your life
🔹A guide that has actually walked the walk. I understand you, because I was you.

In 12 months we rebuild from the ground up - so you don’t just “survive” - but actually thrive after narcissistic abuse & family estrangement. Transforming your inner landscape. Rebuilding your life. A path of rebirth.

The Self-Led Life

Transform Your Inner Landscape. Rebuild Your Life.

A Sacred 12-month Path Of Rebirth Where Spiritual Awakening, Emotional Sovereignty & Physical Renewal Become One

What´s included?

✔️Onboarding + Client Intake Session
✔️36 x 1:1 calls (approx. 60-75 minutes via Signal; 3 calls/month)
✔️Guided Access to the licensed healing programs by Liana Shanti:
🔹Mother Wound Healing
🔹Father Wound Healing
🔹Healing from Narcissistic Relationships
🔹Awakening Ancient Gifts
🔹Light Body Activation
🔹Health-related program(s) depending on your focus/needs
during the time of the mentorship
✔️Customized Integration material tied to licensed sessions
✔️Priority Support access throughout the year so you can process in real time when insights or challenges arise (on weekdays)

Investment: 11.111 €
(+VAT if applicable)

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What´s next?

How we get started:

Application

You apply for the mentorship. We connect, see how I can support you & if working together feels aligned for us

Onboarding & Client Intake Session

We clarify where you´re currently at & identify your intentions & desired outcome. Signing of Agreement

Start of Your Journey

We start with our mentorship sessions! :)

Is your heart whispering yes?

Start with filling out the application & share what’s weighing on your heart, what dreams are tentatively making themselves known.

We will discover how I can walk beside you in this transformation &
whether your soul is ready to say yes to reclaiming all of you.

You are ready to come home to yourself.
And I can’t wait to hold that light for you.

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Frequently Asked

Questions

If you don´t see the question you´re looking for, please feel free to reach out!

I do! Please reach out to me for more details.
Signal is the messaging app that we use to communicate for our sessions & support
No! We´re not doing school or theoretical information overload here - We use quantum concepts & tools in a grounded & practical way tailored to your unique situation.
I do focus on women in my work, but if you´re a man & resonate with my work/style, I´m happy to chat too! :)