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Reclaim Your Energy, Identity & Agency After Narcissistic Abuse & Family Estrangement
Rebuilding a Self-Led Life Without Guilt & Self-Betrayal
Hello Radiant Soul,
Inside, you know there’s an untamed spark…something greater, brighter, & wild just underneath the surface. Not the world’s version of you…but your truest, most empowered self. You’re meant to be vibrant, self-loving, & at peace in your body. Healing isn’t just possible - it’s your birthright.
That version of you is already here. She’s simply waiting for her moment to emerge, & she’s ready to shine.
Does this resonate? You might be feeling...
🔹Chronically exhausted, hypervigilant or disconnected … like your energy has
betrayed you. A nervous system on egde & lack of safety in your body that linger
despite “doing the work”.
🔹Empty, isolated, unsure who you are in this world without the family role.
You over-explain, over-give or self-gaslight.
🔹Persistent guilt, shame, self-doubt & the internalized narcissistic voice that makes trusting yourself & your boundaries insurmountable.
🔹Grief that has no social permission. Clinging to the fantasy of “one day they´ll change” even when deep down your soul knows.
You crave transformation…true, soul-deep change.
You long to:
🔹Reclaim a stable, sovereign sense of self that is no longer shaped by abuse, gaslighting or survival patterns.
🔹Move from chronic fatigue & hypervigilance into embodied self-trust & safety.
🔹Be loved fully, as you are … no more explaining or second-guessing. Knowing who you are, what you feel, what you want & how to honor it - unapologetically.
🔹 Understand & break those cycles of repetition … the painful echoes in your life that keep looping through.
And maybe, deep in your heart, you’re yearning for:
🔹No more shame & guilt … only authentic confidence that radiates,
unbothered by what others may think.
🔹Real self-love…so potent it eclipses self-doubt & grows roots in your soul.
You’re not crazy … you’re limitless.
That voice that whispers otherwise? It’s lying.
This space
is sacredly
yours if …
🔹You’re ready to be emotionally free, deeply seen & anchored in your truth.
🔹You long for your nervous system to finally exhale … to experience your body as
a safe home, not a battleground.
🔹You’re done with toxic dynamics & ready for relationships rooted in reciprocity, safety & emotional maturity.
🔹You desire to rebuild financial stability, work life & long-term vision with clarity.
🔹You’re past surface-level healing spaces, “trauma-informed” language & piecemeal approaches - you seek lasting change, depth & a structured path of transformation.
🔹You want to design a future that is self-led, value-aligned & spiritually anchored - with clear boundaries, real agency & authentic self-leadership.
If any of this wakes your heart with a YES, your time is now. You deserve this.
I’m Lahela, And I Am The Evidence That Miracles Are Real
I didn’t just study healing.
I lived it. I embodied it.
After a near-death experience in early childhood that resulted in quadriplegic Cerebral Palsy, I was told I would always be limited. I was blind, used a wheelchair & carried profound emotional, narcissistic & sexual trauma.
I knew pain. I knew loneliness. I knew what it meant to have a body in survival mode & weighed down by self-doubt, confusion, suppressed memories & disassociation. But I also knew something deeper.
Even in the dark, I could feel it:
A pulse of truth that whispered,
“You are not your pain. You are not your trauma. You are a soul on fire.”
That whisper grew louder over time … until I listened. Until I answered the call.
Through years of deep, sacred work, physically, emotionally, energetically -
I transformed. Not just symptom relief. Rebirth.
From a wheelchair to walking.
From survival mode to sovereign joy.
From silence & shame to being a clear, unapologetic channel of divine truth & healing.
Today, I move through this world with independence, vitality, & purpose.
But more than that, I live inside a frequency of self-love & divine remembrance that I now help others reclaim.
I became a Quantum Mind-Body Therapist® & Holistic Health & Wellness Coach not because it sounded good but because it saved
my life.
I carry certifications, yes.
I’ve studied neuroplasticity, nutrition, trauma recovery, quantum healing, & embodied transformation. But what I bring to you is far beyond credentials.
I bring my lived experience.
My sacred scars.
My unwavering belief that nothing about you is too far gone, too late, or too much to heal.
I meet you from the inside out because I am you.
I’ve walked through fire. I’ve chosen love anyway.
And now, I walk with women, tender souls across the globe to help them remember who they are beneath the pain,
beyond the trauma, & into their radiant truth.
You don’t need to have it all figured out.
You just need to be willing.
If you’re here, reading this… your healing has already begun.
And I would be honored to walk beside you as you rise.
As a Quantum Mind-Body Therapist® & Holistic Health & Wellness Coach, I guide women like you towards your own blossoming … from exhaustion to aliveness, from guilt to unapologetic love, from disconnection to grounded wholeness.
I’ve lived in the trauma trenches, the frustration of not being heard, the fading hope. I’ve healed, emerged, &
I understand … because I am you.
My alchemy of resilience, my journey, is the map you can use.
What this sacred
path offers you
Here is the container I hold for you…completely judgement-free, completely yours:
🔹A safe, soul-aligned space to feel deeply & heal truly.
🔹Wisdom that merges quantum energy healing, neuroscience, psychology, holistic nutrition, & spirituality. Backed by my certifications from HMI Wellness: Quantum Mind-Body Therapy® & Holistic Health Coaching.
🔹Compassion-first tools that dismantle limiting myths, negative feedback loops, & misleading narratives. We realign toward your inherent joy & authenticity.
🔹Practices to nourish your body, invite embodiment, & ground you into everyday grace, no more fighting, only thriving.
This is what
healing feels like ...
Imagine:
🔹Trust in yourself, shimmering through your choices.
🔹Shame & survival patterns loosening its grip on your nervous system, replaced by a deep reverence for the miracle of your body.
🔹Building purpose & meaning … beyond past family roles.
🔹Saying “no” without collapse or guilt.
🔹Relationships chosen from safety, not survival. You´re internally anchored -
no matter who stays or leaves.
🔹Emotional sovereignty replacing self-doubt & people-pleasing.
🔹Worthiness radiating through your core - no longer needing to perform
🔹A shift from surviving to thriving.
🔹Safety in your body. Love in your heart. Alignment with your truest self.
Is Your Heart Whispering Yes?
Let’s begin simply with a 20 minute free Connection Consult. You share what’s weighing on your heart, what dreams are tentatively making themselves known.
We will discover how I can walk beside you in this transformation & whether your soul is ready to say yes to reclaiming all of you.
You are ready to come home to yourself. And I can’t wait to hold that light for you. 🤍